The Murphys, American Trendsetters on the Riviera
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The beach in Nice, France in the summer. Photo: Valery Hache/AFP/Getty Images
By Margo Lestz
If you visit the French Riviera in July or August, you might have trouble finding an open space on the beach to put your towel. It’s hard to imagine that up until the 1920s there were no summer tourists here, no hotels were open, and there was certainly no one swimming in the sea.
The French Riviera was “discovered” in the 1800s by the European nobility who spent their winters here. But when springtime rolled around these wealthy holiday-makers went home and left the summer heat to the locals. Then in the 1920s, an American couple played a big part in the Riviera’s “rediscovery”.
Gerald and Sara Murphy – Photo © Estate of Honoria Murphy Donnelly/ Licensed by VAGA, New York, NY
The Murphys
Gerald and Sara Murphy were one of the first American couples…
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Laugh the Day Away
Laughter is the medicine for all the illnesses in the world. Having a good sense of humor is a great thing to have. I’ve been told on more than one occasion I have a great laugh. A funny laugh. A one of a kind laugh. My life is way more comedy than tragedy. And after any so-called tragedy this world throws at me I’ll still find a way to poke fun of it, laugh, and infect others with joy.
Honestly, (and I do hope this is many years from now) I hope people laugh at my funeral. The comedian Jerry Seinfeld once joked, “When I die I want everyone to have a good time! At my funeral I want them to roll me out like a big, six foot party sub!” I want people to tell stories, happy stories, about life, not about death, when I’m gone. Then I want them…
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Celebrating the Gourd in Nice, France
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By Margo Lestz
Nice is a French city, of course, but it also has a strong and proud culture all its own. It was Niçois long before it was French and the people work hard to keep their Niçois traditions alive. It has its own language, anthem, traditional costumes, dances, songs, and food. The language is taught in schools and there are dance groups that perform at many events throughout the year. These associations ensure that the traditions are passed from generation to generation. And the calendar is dotted with several events each year that are typically Niçois.

- Note that the little girl has a long gourd hanging around her back. She played it in the band with the little stick that is tucked into her apron.
One such event is the gourd festival that took place last weekend in the park, in the hills of Cimiez (above Nice). It…
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April Fool or April Fish?
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By Margo Lestz
In many countries, the first day of April is a day to play harmless jokes on family and friends. This usually consists of telling a farfetched story in such a way that it sounds like it could be true. When the other person falls for our joke, we exclaim, “April fool!” and have a laugh. In France, they play the same sort of jokes, but instead of saying “April fool!” they say, “poisson d’avril!” which translates into “April fish!”. One of the favourite “April fish” jokes among French children is to tape a paper fish to someone’s back without them knowing it.
Why April fish?
To find out why these jokes are called April fish, we have to go back to 1564 to the time of Charles IX, or Charlie 9 as we like to call him. Up until this time, the New Year…
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Madame Liberté
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Lady Liberty showing her Frenchness.
Might this have been Bartholdi’s original design ?
By Margo Lestz
The Statue of Liberty is one of the most recognised symbols of the United States. But did you know that Lady Liberty is an immigrant? It’s true, she’s a French woman by birth who has made New York her home. (No wonder she’s so elegant.)
There are replicas of this monument throughout the world and now, Nice, France has one too. The Quai des Etats-Unis, “Quay of the United States” which fronts the Old Town has been given a facelift and a new statue of Lady Liberty adorns the way. She’s a bit on the short side, only 1.35 metres (4 ft 5 in) but apparently she is cast from an original mould signed by Bartholdi, the sculptor who made the big one in New York. And speaking of the Grand Lady in…
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It Pays to be Polite in France
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- “A cup of coffee” – € 7.00
“A cup of coffee, please“ – € 4.25
“Hello, a cup of coffee, please“ – € 1.40
By Margo Lestz
At this café in Nice, France, minding your manners can significantly reduce the price of your coffee.
Of course, this was meant as a humorous way to remind customers to be polite, but it’s a great illustration of the French attitude toward good manners.
In France the “courtesy words and phrases” are very important and NOT optional. Fortunately, they’re easy to master, but if you can’t manage them in French, at least say them in English. More than likely, the French will understand you and think that you’re a polite person who doesn’t speak French – which is, of course, much better than being thought of as a rude person who doesn’t speak French. So if you want to…
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My University
I was walking my well trodden paths of Southern Illinois University this week and enjoying two specific unusual occurrences for SIU and this time of the year. The first being the news that the freshman class is larger than it has been in a number of years, sixteen percent I am told, and the second that the temperatures are very cool or fall like. The natural beauty of my University has always captivated me. SIU is located in the most scenic geographical location of Illinois. During the Ice Age the glaciers halted in our area as evidenced by the beauty of the Shawnee National Forest. Also, there has been a tremendous amount of landscaping work done on Campus. This along with the addition of numerous flower and plant planters, new classic lighting, and marble seats and pillars indicating a second primary entrance to a majestic campus. The result is inviting physical beauty that is unparalleled in our state.
If you will allow me a bit of a digression let me say that I spent over thirty-two years employed at SIU. During those fruitful years I received many promotions and almost completed a bachelor’s degree. I became involved, sometimes at high levels, with the incredibly complex machinations of Campus politics. I have for many years been fascinated by the story of and subsequent success of former University President Delyte Morris. Dr. Morris came to the University in the 1940’s when SIU was called Normal or a Teacher’s College. He with extraordinary ability and capability transformed a small Teacher’s College to the internationally respected Southern Illinois University that we have today. He did this by basically having a charisma that convinced everyone from the Governor and legislatures of the state to the student and janitor of SIU into believing that they were on his team and that he was doing something special that had not been done before! Dr. Morris truly built Southern Illinois University from a locale that was populated by coal miners, factory workers, and farmers and attracted national and international talent such as R. Buckminster Fuller purely by the mystery of what he was doing in Little Egypt.
However for the last twenty or more years my University became more concerned with personalities than progress. The revolving door of Campus leaders or Chancellors, including two who were very successful, along with the recent Board of Trustee childish bickering has been a series of blows that I agonized at times as to whether or not we can recover from. We must focus as closely on the success of our students or the inner beauty of our Campus as we have of late on its’ outer beauty or physical appearance! SIU was founded on the unique proposition that a first class university education was the right of all those who were willing to work to attain it. Not just for the elite or the Ivy league but also for the coal miner, the factory worker, and the farmers’ child.
New Orleans Adventure
Last month the Brooks family took a step on the wild side. We visited New Orleans. Mary Jane and I had talked about this visit for roughly twenty-five years. We often do not get in a hurry. Upon our arrival at the Maison Perrier Bed and Breakfast we were greeted with a welcome drink. At this point I thought that perhaps the drive was worth it. Tom, the host at the Inn along with his wife Patricia, were so welcoming and full of information it seemed that it would be impossible to do and see all there was to partake of.
Magazine street was just a few blocks from our new home. We toured the antique shops and found that they housed very rare and upscale items that were for the discerning collector. At Patricia’s suggestion we ate at the World Famous New A’wlins Jazz Cafe and Oyster Bar. The cuisine was to die for and the atmosphere was special! A three-piece combo and singer treated us to as fine Jazz music as it has been my privilege to hear. The owner came to our table to thank us profusely for coming in both english and french and to admonish us to look at the television in the corner where he and his restaurant had just come on the Food channel. He was extremely proud of this rare treat!
Our tours of two historic cemeteries was enjoyable. St. Louis 1 and Lafayette 1 are like no burial grounds I have seen in that they are not only very old but also totally above ground mausoleums. Some of the individual sarcophagus are so deteriorated that little more than a pile of bricks remain. It was extremely hot while we were there and I overheard tour guides likening the crypts to ovens and what happens to items in them.
I think Jackson Square was my favorite area of the French Quarter. Full of unique shops as well as sidewalk artists and the display of their crafts it was an area that reminded me of our visit to Nice, France, a couple of years past, with our good friend Margo Lestz. An artist had made tin figures from roofs of homes in the ninth ward that had been devastated by hurricane Katrina in 2005. The images were of skeletons and other macabre icons that both seemed so appropriate and chilling. He wondered if anyone had ever told me that I resembled the famous Doctor Oliver Sacks? I told him that he was the first.
We took two bites of the apple when it came to the well-known restaurant Pat O’Brien’s. The first was at the bar where we enjoyed the classic Hurricane which is a drink with four shots of rum mixed with punch. You have heard of rum punch I presume? It was quite delicious and left us with a feeling of well-being and a slight euphoria. On another day we sojourned into the other side of the establishment which is a dueling piano bar. This being my first experience and being placed right next to one of the dueling pianos with a table of frat boys almost setting with us…I was somewhat uncomfortable until I had another Hurricane. Whereupon the dancing frat boys became interesting and somewhat humorous.
Coops, was my favorite restaurant experience in the French Quarter. It was the end of a long hot day where we had been somewhat underwhelmed by Frenchmen’s street and subsequently decided to return to the New A’wlins Cafe on Magazine rather than continue to search for what was supposed to be the highlights of the Quarter. As we were walking back to the street car, which is a rarefied experience in our modern life, we happened upon Coops. We waked in and were immediately waked out very nicely as we found out that due to fire codes the waiting line formed outside the door. Soon the waitress came to get us as we told her that we were more than willing to set at the bar. After all we had already been to Pat O’Brien’s. The very fast and business like bar tender asked me if I would like something to drink. When I asked if he made a good Dirty Martini he responded that he made a very bad Dirty Martini. I had two. From the Alligator bites to the Red fish and Sausage it was an outstanding meal!
After our search for Nirvana in the French Quarter we came upon two native New Orleanians. One of them admonished us that the best way to enjoy the riches of the city was to find our own special place and that place would become our New Orleans. Truer words have not been spoken!