Pandora’s Jar–On the Occasion that You Find Yourself in Despair

Another thought provoking blog from my friend.

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Dear Lily June,

Right now, the world seems to be a very dark place indeed. If you look at just the largest acts of terror and murder in the Westernized world lately–the Pulse nightclub shooting of 49 members of the LGBT community in Orlando, Florida; the seemingly race-driven killings of individuals in the Black community by police officers and the seemingly retaliatory killings of police officers in Dallas, Texas and Baton Rouge, Louisiana; the driving of a truck into a crowd of innocents in Nice, France that resulted in the deaths of at least 84–you might find yourself, like your mother, largely overwhelmed. And this is nothing compared to the bloodshed and tension that has been unfolding in places throughout the Middle East for centuries.

I sat on our balcony yesterday with your father and asked him, in a pit of depression and despair, what right we had to bring you into a world…

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Letter from Nice

Please read my friend Margo’s post regarding the tragedy in Nice.

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Today’s post is a letter to let you all know that I am fine and to thank you for your concern, and your thoughts and prayers. Jeff was away, and I went to the July 14 fireworks display with some friends. About three minutes before the truck came barreling through the crowd I was walking along the same route, thinking what a wonderful evening it had been and how nice to be in a happy, family atmosphere.

Then I turned down the street where I live, which is just off the Promenade. It’s a pedestrian street lined with restaurants and tables spilling into the street. It’s a main passageway for people going to the Promenade and is always packed after an event. So we were shoulder to shoulder, moving along very slowly. I hadn’t been on my street more than three minutes when people behind me began to…

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Thursday afternoon shortly after 4:00 pm Mary Jane and I were watching CNN when Breaking News flashed on the television screen that there had been a large refrigeration truck drive through a massive group of people celebrating Bastille Day in Nice, France.  The nineteen ton white truck sped down the Promenade des Anglais swerving to the left and right in order to strike and run over and kill as many of the people, who were returning from the fireworks show, as possible.

We were fear stricken as our dear friends Margo and Jeff live in Nice!  We immediately began to email and text them both and were so relieved to hear that Margo was just ahead of the massacre and had been able, along with many others, to run into one of the restaurants for safe shelter.  She was shaken by the incident but safe!

Jeff was in the United Kingdom working with his business at the time of the heinous act…but rushed to be by Margo’s side as quickly as possible.

Two years ago this past June we were with Margo and Jeff in Nice.  Nice is a lovely, peaceful, friendly city.  We walked along the Promenade des Anglais at least once a day for the week that we were there.

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I thought of the sweet people in the Hat Store where Mary Jane and I both purchased a hat.  I thought of the lovely people that we met in the various restaurants that we ate in.  The great group of authors that we met at a meeting that Margo invited us to…they were so kind…and caring.

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It makes a difference when you have actually been to a geographical location that later experiences tragedy.

Across our planet we have a growing affinity with violence.  It is thought by many that, “The only way to fight fire is with fire.”

Certainly the swiftest prosecution of murderers and those who support terrorism is necessary and appropriate.  But there has to be a deeper answer for the Cancer that is growing across the Globe.

I wonder if we all work to create more love and understanding with those who are demonized and set apart…and disenfranchised…can we make a difference in our generation?

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There is no rationale or reasoning that will cause me to understand how anyone can cavalierly murder innocent people, including children.  The dramatic turn to bloodshed has frozen societies…politics…and religions into a grudging acceptance of what until recently was beyond imagination.  I think we must all ask God for answers…and work to promote healing among those we come in contact with.

“An eye for an eye will make the world blind.”

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An Unusual Comment For Unusual Times

I am politically an Independent.  In the 1980s I voted for Ronald Reagan.  I also voted for George H. W.  Bush.  At the time I thought they were both wonderful!

Over three separate interviews this past week Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg has voiced her views regarding the presumptive Republican Nominee for President of the United States.  In an interview with the New York Times the Justice said, “I can’t imagine what the country would be-with Donald Trump as our President.”  In an interview with the Associated Press Justice Ginsburg stated when asked about a possible Trump victory, “I don’t want to think about that possibility, but if it should be, then everything is up for grabs.”  In an interview with CNN on Monday she said, Trump was, “A faker who has no consistency about him.”

Justice Ginsburg has been almost universally condemned for what is considered an inappropriate comment coming from a sitting member of the highest court in the land.  Condemnations range from, how can she be viewed as impartial when and if a case comes before the Supreme Court regarding a Trump Presidency to her casting a cloud over the entire Court.

Presumptive Republican Nominee Donald Trump responded by tweet on Twitter, “Justice Ginsburg of the United States Supreme Court has embarrassed us all by making very dumb political statements about me.  Her mind is shot-resign!”

Ruth Bader Ginsburg is the daughter of Russian/Jewish immigrants.

I watched the CNN Town hall with Speaker of the House Paul Ryan.  On more than one occasion during the hour event Speaker Ryan was asked how he could support Donald Trump who has demonstrated extremely candid misogynistic, racist, xenophobic statements and opinions?  The Speaker replied that it was a binary decision and thus he could accept Trump rather than Clinton.  That is probably the appropriate stand for the Republican Speaker of the House to take as he is the Chairman of the Republican National Convention that begins on Monday…but what about the excluding of the entire Muslim faith and people from the United States?  What about  referring to Mexicans as rapist?  Is it apparently more political expedient to disregard fifty-one percent of the residents of the United States and to turn a deaf ear and a blind eye to the most egregious demeaning comments about women…so we can win an election?  Is it now acceptable to make fun of disabled people?  What about being slow to disavow and nonplus about the Ku Klux Klan?

Republican questioners in the Town Hall audience looked like “deer caught in the headlights” when the Speaker of the House of Representatives basically informed them that he was able to look over all of their concerns…just to place a Republican in the White House.

What comes after the election?  What shall we be willing to accept?

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Unraveling, Part II–On the Occasion of Being a Failure as a Teacher

A profound post from my friend! Please read.

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*TRIGGER WARNING: This post contains a link to a graphic image of a brutally murdered boy named Emmett Till. Because his mother asked that his body be buried in an open casket so that all could see what had been done to her child, I am honoring her wishes again and sharing his image. I will clearly indicate in the text the moment where this image appears. If you cannot look, do not click the link. I have looked at this image only a few times in my life, but I will never be able to forget what I’ve seen.*

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Dear Lily June,

As a teacher, I would talk to my students about ethos. It’s a more complex concept than this, but essentially, it refers to the credibility of a speaker. Some voices have more connection to a topic at hand, and thus are more able to accurately convey an…

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Unraveling, Part I–On the Occassion of More Murders in America

Please read my friend’s thought provoking blog.

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Dear Lily June,

Imagine you are born in a very cold place. In this place, there are many groups of people, and you belong to a group called the Sames. (There are also the Differents, the Others, the Exotics, etc.) Because you are a Same, when you are born, you are given a magical sweater, one which protects you from all the elements. Here’s the catch, though: This sweater is invisible to every one who wears it. Only those not wearing it–the Differents, the Others, the Exotics, etc.–can actually see the sweater. If you’re thinking really hard about it, you can feel how it’s keeping you warm, but like I said, it’s mostly, to you, entirely invisible. It’s easy to forget you’re even wearing it.

One day a Different walks up to you with a look of horror and disgust. “That sweater,” the Different says, not mincing words, “is cruel.”

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Inspiration

Please enjoy this great Jonathon Brooks Blog!

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Who inspires you? It could be a favorite writer, the best teacher you’ve ever had, your mom, your dad, a beloved great uncle, Jesus or all sorts of others whose hearts are in the right place. I could name many people throughout my lifetime who have helped, inspired, me in a multitude of ways.

I won’t make a list of all of their names, but I’d like to give a thank-you to every writer I’ve ever read for their inspiration in my life. Falling in love with reading at the age of 19 helped save my life. Video game heroes as a boy never did this for me. They were and our heroes in their game worlds. In the story of my real life I needed real heroes to save my days.

Two of the first writers works I ever read because I wanted to read for knowledge and fun…

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One Step

An Elder in our Church, Peter Alexander, delivered a thought provoking message this morning centered on Psalm 67.  Contained in his remarks was the question; “what can I do to save the world?”  This timely question was birthed from the agony of the horrendous violence that has occurred over the past week. From Baton Rouge, Louisiana to St. Paul, Minnesota to Dallas Texas… there has been almost a daily terrible dose of tragedy and senseless killing.

Have you ever felt marginalized?  Were you ever bullied in school?  Did anyone ever treat you differently because of some obscure reason that they concocted in their “poor self esteem psyche?”

What can I do, perhaps not to save the world, but to begin healing the racial wounds of our society…that are so deep and gaping that the healing appears hopeless?  What can I do to bridge the cultural chasm between the white race and the black race?  What can I do that will demonstrate by deed and action that I want to know my African American brothers and sisters?  How can I show the members of the Muslim Community that I value them and that I want to work…study…and live with them with the honor of them feeling that I am their equal and their friend?

My African American colleague Jewel Thompson had  Christmas dinner on Campus many years ago that she graciously invited me to.  She made me so welcome!  The food was good and the fellowship was great!  She played Nat King Cole Christmas Carols…and I felt like I was home!  Of Christmas events during my over thirty-two year career…none made more of an indelible impression of me.

A few weeks ago my former supervisor and the Director of Plant and Service Operations retired and invited me to his retirement party.  As Mary Jane and I and Jonathon, who now works for the Physical Plant, were eating…a few people greeted me…but many seemed not to recognize me or remember me.  Suddenly Alfie a

Former student staff member in my office came up to me and greeted me and hugged  me.  Alfie is an African American of Muslim faith.  I told those setting nearby that, “Alfie was my son…he just would not  call me Daddy.”  Alfie exclaimed, “That he would call me Daddy.”

My first supervisor who greeted me on October 10th, 1978 was Jim Walls.  Jim was a nearly 70 year old African American gentleman who smoked the most delightfully scented cigars!  No one knew me…but soon Jim began telling everyone how proud he was of the work that I was performing.  It was not long that by Jim’s efforts, I had a good name throughout the department.  A crew boss…as I was a janitor at that time…cursed me one night on an overtime shift…and I told him that if he did that again that I would leave the job.  The next evening I mentioned the occurrence to Jim.  The next time that I worked for the person that I had experienced the altercation with…I had no more that arrived for the beginning of the overtime shift and Joe and I had entered the first building that we were to clean…we heard an old van drive up…and in came my cigar smoking supervisor and friend.  He entered the door and asked Joe, “Do you realize that Brooks is my son…he just won’t call me Daddy?”

I think that for everyone that desires healing and understanding of others…seek one person who is of a different race and begin communicating with them.  Not with the noble idea that you will enrich them…but with the humble desire that they will accept you.

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The last week has been an onslaught of tragedy for our country and our lives.  Mr. Alton Sterling, an African American man was standing in a parking lot selling CD’s in Baton Rouge, Louisiana this past Tuesday night.  A homeless man is reported to have called 911 stating that Sterling showed him a gun in response to him asking Sterling for money.  A video taken of the incident appears to show that Mr. Sterling’s gun never left his pocket…yet police shot him to death. Police refused to comment whether Mr. Sterling had a gun.

Mr. Philando Castile was stopped by police outside St. Paul, Minnesota.  Before Castile reached for his wallet to present his identification he told the officer that he had a gun and was licensed to carry it.  Mr. Castile was shot dead by the officer.

Last night twelve police officers in Dallas, Texas were shot and five have died.  These officers were assigned to ensure the safety of the protest regarding the two men who were killed by police on Tuesday and Wednesday.

The pain and hurt and lack of trust and fear by many members of the African Community is justified in light of what not only is the video evidence of these shootings but also what countless of them have experienced at the hands of bigoted police officers.

At one time in my life I was the manager of a large housekeeping organization at a major university.  One night I was telephoned by one of my supervisors to please come to his building quickly as one of his crew was being questioned by the police regarding the theft of money from a professor’s office.  When I arrived two white police officers were questioning the African American custodial employee.  After observing one of the officers screaming at my employee…I asked how he was a prime suspect when he was entering offices at my request and with master keys that I provided him and the accusing professor had left her purse on her desk with the door open…and she was not present.  The officers convinced my employee to subject himself to a strip search…where they found no money…and he was exonerated.  One of the officers told me that I had hurt their interrogation of my staff member…who was and still is a respected member of our community…and that if I had not been there…he would have confessed.

Police are often wonderful people.  The key word is what a friend told me many years ago…a policeman is a man.  Also, a policewoman is  a woman.  For someone to shoot and kill police men and women to some how avenge wrongs done that the people being shot had nothing to do with…is insanity!

The next time you are in trouble…afraid…perhaps for you life…there will be a policeman or policewoman that you will call upon.  They will come to your assistance…often at the risk of their own life.  They deserve our thanks!

The bigoted racist culture of signaling out African Americans for additional traffic stops…shadowing in department stores…or the deadly irreversible assumption that lethal force is the first solution…is chilling and frightening!

There is a truth that is as old as humanity.  We are all first human beings.  We love our families…we want the best for our children…we want to succeed and create a decent life for our loved ones…and we want the respect of our common humanity.

We must begin now…to talk together and forget the color of our skin…but rather listen and listen and listen…and see the person who is communicating with us as Dr. Martin Luther King extolled us, “by the content of their character.”

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Peacemaker

On September 9, 1993 Mary Jane and I were privileged to attend An Evening with Elie Wiesel at Southern Illinois University in Carbondale.  According to Wikipedia, “Eliezer “Elie” Wiesel was a Romanian-born American Jewish writer, professor, political activist, Holocaust survivor, and Nobel Laureate.  He was the author of 57 books, written mostly in French and English, including Night, a work based on his experiences as a prisoner in Auschwitz and Buchenwald concentration camps.  Along with writing he was a professor of the humanities at Boston University.”

Wiesel was fifteen years old when he and his family were placed in a confinement ghetto in his hometown of Sighetu.  Mr. Wiesel lost his mother and father and sister in the camps.

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Have you ever met a fellow human being that had such a magnetism about them…that you paused and reflected on the experience?  Elie Wiesel had that affect on me.  His face and his eyes were haunting.

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Mary Jane recalls Elie Wiesel speaking from a passage from his first book, Night, and how she was moved by the painful honesty of the passage…and what it was like to be in the Camps.  The passage is regarding a father and son running and the human, emotional, traumatic, challenge between them.  “It happened on the road.  We lost sight of one another during the journey.  I stayed a little to the rear of the column.  I hadn’t any strength left for running.  And my son didn’t notice.  Thats all I know.  Where has he disappeared?  Where can I find him?  Perhaps you’e seen him?  Perhaps you’ve seen him somewhere?  ‘No Rabbi Eliahou, I haven’t seen him.’  He left then as he had come: like a wind-swept shadow.  He had already passed through the door when I suddenly remembered seeing his son running by my side.  I had forgotten that, and I didn’t tell Rabbi Eliahou!  Then I remembered something else: his son had seen him loosing ground, limping, staggering back to the rear of the column.  He had seen him. And he had continued to run on in front, letting the distance between them grow greater.  A terrible thought loomed up in my mind: he had wanted to get rid of his father!  He had felt that his father was growing weak, he had believed that the end was near and sought this separation in order to get rid of the burden, to free himself from the encumbrance which could lessen his own chances of survival”  Night: pages 86 and 87.

Mr. Wiesel believed that he must keep the memory alive of the Holocaust…but struggled with the futility of explaining an event that, “defied reason and imagination.”

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Upon Mr. Wiesel’s first post war visit to Germany he was moved by the German students that he met and their distressing search to understand Germany’s past.  He urged reconciliation.

I would liken hearing Elie Wiesel speak and later meeting him as he signed our copy of Night…to meeting an Old Testament Prophet.  A man who had witnessed more cruelty, fear, pain, and death…genocide…than most of us will ever experience…and yet sought to bring people together.

A lesson for our time.

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