Happy Birthday

I have often heard that just before a person dies that their life passes before them in a few seconds much like a movie on fast forward.  When I was much younger I assumed that this had to be impossible due to the numerous events that happened during a full life…especially of a person of advanced years.  How could a complex and varied experience life boil down to a mini documentary?

My birthday is the twenty-fourth of this month.  It transpires during my favorite season of the year, autumn.  I feel more creative during this time of the year and I have more energy.  My  friend Steve,  of over forty years,  was born on the same day as I.  Although he is a little older.  In December my high school graduating class of 1975 is having our forty year reunion.  It seems like yesterday…most of them I have not seen since graduation.  Their yearbook appearance is frozen in my mind.  Mary Jane and I laugh when from time to time we remark that someone whom we have not seen in a few years is looking older…as we wonder what their reaction was to our appearance.

When I started working  for Southern Illinois University in 1978 I thought that it would never end.  At the conclusion of this year I will be retired five years.  My sons are thirty-three and thirty-one…not long ago…it seems…they sat on my knee and their mother and I dreamed of their future.

Life is much like a book and there are chapters contained therein.  As James Taylor sings, ” The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time.”

I was watching a series on PBS the other night where the commentator stated that our visual reality was only what our eyes along with our brain allowed us to see.  He went on to say that our brain composes a visual reality from the limited information that our eyes send to it…and that our reality is not the same as another human’s visual brain story.  Sounds like science fiction doesn’t it?  But apparently this is science fact.

It has been said that, ” Life is a riddle, wrapped in a mystery, inside an enigma.”

Jesus said, “A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another, as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.  By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” KJV

William Shakespeare said, “All the world is a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances, And one man in his time plays many parts,…”

And now for some photographs from Southern Illinois University at my favorite time of year:


I am told to expect white cake and triple chocolate ice cream Saturday as we travel to Fischers, Indiana to celebrate my birthday with Aaron my oldest son.  It does not get any better than that!

28 responses

  1. Happy birthday, Jay. Time really does fly, doesn’t it! Seems like just yesterday that we were teenagers.

    1. It sure does! I will be adding some pictures shortly…I hit the publish button by accident.😉

    2. Thank you my friend.😃

  2. This is so sheen. Happy birthday btw! 🙂

    1. Thank you very much!😃

  3. What a beautiful birthday post! Wishing you a wonderful celebration with your son, and many happy returns!

    1. Thank you so much!😃

  4. Happy early birthday, sir! I wish you and your family an extraordinary celebration!

    1. Thank you very much!😃

  5. Happy Birthday dear Jay, I hope you had a nice Birthday 🙂 Thanks and Love, nia

    1. Thank you my friend!😃

  6. Happy belated birthday!

    1. Thank you so much!😃

  7. Hope your birthday was wonderful! Your photos are gorgeous!

    1. Thanks so much Terri! It was a great birthday!😃

  8. I bet you had a fabulous time! 🙂 🙂

  9. Happy Birthday! Love your blog, going to follow. 😁

    1. Thank you so much!😃

  10. lovely entry – quotes and pictures. Hope you had a wonderful birthday! We must be about the same age I understand – our 40th will be next year.

    1. Thank you very much! I just turned 58. The years go by so quickly!😀

      1. Then we are exactly the same age – I turned 58 October 2. Where do they go – all the years. Hope you had a great day!

      2. October is a good month! My grandmother often said,”life is short if you live to be 100.” It was a lovely birthday, and I hope for you the same.

      3. It was, thank you!

  11. As one retired guy to another, thanks for stopping by my blog and also for the follow. Happy Birthday!

    1. You are welcome my friend. I am looking forward to your posts!

  12. I can relate to your article in that this year is my 20th high school reunion. I remember when I was in high school and my mother telling me that 10 years would go by like lightning. She also told me that I wouldn’t see many of my classmates for many years. You know my thoughts were like “WHATEVER!” How about momma was certainly right. I sure love her! Your photos were great!


    1. Thank you so much! Indeed time goes by much to fast!😃

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